man. i regretted going today. I spent my whole day at a relative which i dont consider to be close with but am close with one of my close aunt. okay in short, its a distant relative. anyways, to be there to celebrate this distant relative's new born baby cutting of hair ceremony, i had to miss apparently a bunch of things. am i am so regretting it badly right now! so not worth it!! ahhh..
first, i had to miss my tution which means my payday will be later.. =( then i had to miss my boys over flowers repeat since kbs is currently airing it.. and to think i had to miss both! what a luck! i know!
then instead of the home onwers,me and my two aunts were the i consider to be "slave" for today? i dont know if it sounds a lil harsh but i think it just suits the casts. me, mum, two aunts, and my uncle( oh he is the one bridging me to this distant relative since he married my aunt) is the one running here and there and helping as though this function was ours! seriously. i was exasperated at what was going on. You see, their side of the family is supposed to be the one helping but NO.. they were busy resting their precious butts in the comfort of the airy room while we were helping our arses off. the couple whose baby was the main lead today, is inexperienced about this kinda event and how it goes, despite this child being their 4th child. i wonder how did it went with the previous child's cutting hair ceremony. Seriously i wonder.
My mom, aunt and uncle really were sweating and working real hard to make today a comfortable visit for the guests while the rest of them were ordering us around. One of the aunts who were of their close relative and who SHOULD be helping out said this to me when she saw me looking all sweting in the kitchen while helping out, " What are you doing in the kitchen all busy? go inside the room la" and i replied, " oh room's full, no space" and she could replied despite so many people of their side were all in the same room, " oh come in this room over here, got space," and i was like," err, its okay. " here the kitchen needs people to help with the guests and there she was thinking someone is bound to do the job(referring to my side of the family, she doesnt need to do it herself. I was thinking seriously these people are really something. what in the world are they even thinking?? her daughter and nieces were all in the room and they were carrying themselves as though they were of royal blood. i mean " hello do you guys need a mirror or something? they seriously need it badly, think they havent seen themselves in mirror in years!
todays such a exasperating day! crappy people with crappy attitude! and fake smiles all around! smiling behind but turn back and they start cursing you under their breath! what is this! what a world to be living in! i dont want this world! and i feel so sympathetic for my aunt(of relation to the distant relative as it is her hubby's side who is the hosts today), she stayed behind to help out till i think 12 just now and tmr her sons have CA1. my aunt is great! ban zai for my aunt!
i have two heros now, one my mom. The one who is always self-sarificing and the other being my aunt, always helping others without any reward. Women are just the best! Woman soceity rule! There should be a woman society and they should be in it! haha.
And so after i left the place, i reached home in time to catch my Huge in his Return of the Condor Heroes on Channel U. caught the last 10 mins. grr..missed the one hr plus...then i missed my most important poeple in my life now..SHINee! on let's dance!! damn! if only my room tv shows what is the next show! anyways i saw the message my cousin left me which was 3 hours ago on Shinee being on the tv programme! really felt like hitting my head against the wall! lesson learnt: have my hp everywhere i go! what a birdbrain ! took me this long to realise the importance of my phone!
Oh and the closing for tonight, or rather yesterday night, i caught the new drama of main female lead of "my lovely sam soon" which is night after night. just as i expected it is a great drama. she is just a great actress. never fail to entertain! im so looking forward to next sunday's episode!
alright, nights. eyes droopy already.
Labels: crappy day, missing them